Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Me And Multiple Sclerosis

It has come to my attention on a few different occasions that it would be helpful for people to have a spot to understand this thing called MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS and how I'M having to live with it.


This challenging disease is different for everyone who has it. There are so many variables that it's genuinely unique for each and every one. It's just so special ya know. ha, ha.  Please "bear" with me (ha,ha) as I struggle to gather my thoughts and information. Sometimes inside I do feel like a growling bear, because there are Multiple things, this ol' body goes through every time I must remember past episodes. Or realize I still have to be very, very careful. 


I was diagnosed in 2001, when the left side of my face went completely numb. That meant from the top of my head to the bottom of my chin, even half my nose, half my mouth were numb. This included the inside as well as the outside, I felt as if I'd gone to the dentist, but didn't have the swollen feeling. I just couldn't taste or feel my food at all on that side. That side of  my nose that was numb felt weird, especially when I'd wipe it. I was aware my left eye was opening and closing, and I could see ok out of it, but it didn't really feel a part of me. 


This was a very interesting experience. Not fun, that's for sure, but still not life threatening. At first I'd thought it was a reaction from medicine I was taking for a ruptured a disk I had at the time. When I asked my Doctor about that he said it was definitely NOT a side affect and had me get an MRI right away.  He had put together some other symptoms I'd had before this. Such as my left hand was completely numb for over a month. At first he thought it was Carpel Tunnel. I'd been having problems with my left wrist for years.


I was then asked if there were other symptoms before that - well, yes it made sense why I kept running into our coffee table, and a few other things.


As time passed (some days very slowly) I had more and more episodes or what they also call "exacerbation's" - I never cared for that phrase.
I've had the pleasure (ha,ha) of experiencing episodes throughout most of this ol' body. And now (of course) is when I come to appreciate the recreational  experiences that were so fun and easy to enjoy. Naturally when somethings taken away, it's appreciated all the more.


Anyway when many people think of MS, they may envision someone who can’t walk. However there are a plethora of other disabling effects that may come about.


There are many, many websites out there that can explain this very well,
below is the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, which has very good information - but you could get lost. 


This page below goes directly to the explanation of MS, including a great video.
http://www.nationalmssociety.org/about-multiple-sclerosis/what-we-know-about-ms/what-is-ms/index.aspx

Monday, November 7, 2011

The Family



THE FAMILY - A home were warmth, comfort and love are felt. A safe haven of common ground where the husband and wife show love and care for each other and for their children. 
A place where the respectable marriage between men and women is vital for their children feel secure, and know that they have a real sense of belonging, and who they are. 
To keep a whole family happily together takes work, respect, love, compassion, forgiveness. Even repentance, faith and prayer, are a good thing. Plus good old family fun.
I hate to acknowledge the gloomy, however when there is abuse in any way to the spouse or the children this just brings destruction to themselves and breaks the family apart.  Our world more than ever needs stability, communication, and yes Love and Understanding, yet it's becoming all the more disorganized.    
Still Stay strong in all that is good and remember -
"Never Give Up, Never Surrender"  from the movie Galaxy Quest
"Be Excellent to Each Other - And Party On" (not foolishly) -  from the movie Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure
"Peace Be With You - Love One Another"- from our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ


What I have shared here, is partly taken from "The Family: A Proclamation To The World"
see link below for the original


http://lds.org/family/proclamation?lang=eng